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For Men

Married and Gay A website principally for men who are gay or bisexual and married or partnered with a woman, but also for their wives, partners or girlfriends, this website provides information to help them to understand their circumstances. www.marriedgay.org

Husbands Out to their Wives A moderated e-mail list that serves bisexual and gay members who are married, partnered, separated, divorced, or in the process of getting a divorce. A few members are not out to their spouses or partners, but want support for how to tell them and their children. Registration is required.
how-owner@groups.queernet.org

Bisexual Married Men of America An un-moderated email discussion group for bisexual and gay married or partnered men where discussions touch on a wide variety of topics. Members also arrange to chat in real time via their third-party commercial chat services. Registration is required.
safersex.org/bmma

Forum for Married Bi Men A moderated Yahoo! Group for married or partnered bisexual men where they discuss their relationships.
Warning: picture on home page contains nudity. Yahoo! Group registration is required.

groups.Yahoo.com/group/forumformarriedbimen

Closed-Loop Relationships A moderated Yahoo! Group for men who are in closed-loop relationships. A closed-loop relationship consists of a female spouse or partner and two men, at least one of whom is married or partnered, in a separate committed relationship. Once established the relationship is exclusive. Yahoo! Group registration is required.
groups.Yahoo.com/group/Closed-Loop

Gay Married Men Group A moderated Yahoo! Group where gay married or partnered men meet to talk and to support each other. Yahoo! Group registration is required.
groups.Yahoo.com/group/gaymarriedmen

Gay Married Men/Gay Dads A moderated Worldgroups Group for gay married or partnered men and gay fathers. Worldgroups registration required.
mature.www.worldgroups.com/grppage.wsif?t=Site\Group\Join\MSNfrontDoor&groupID=18479

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For Wives

Puget Sound Spouse Support A support group for the straight spouses and partners of gay men and lesbians that meets monthly in Bellevue, WA. For more information, email donna.nolan@comcast.net
pugetsoundspousesupport@q.com

Straight Spouse Network A website for heterosexual spouses and partners, current or former, of gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender partners that provides support and information for help in resolving coming-out issues for all family members.
www.straightspouse.org

Straight Spouses A moderated, confidential email list exclusively for straight spouses of bisexual, gay, or lesbian partners who are trying to keep their relationships intact and for those couples who are separating or divorcing, for keeping their relationship friendly and positive. To subscribe, email ssml-subscribe@topica.com.
ssml-subscribe@topica.com

Straight Spouses in Mixed Orientation Relationships A moderated, confidential email list exclusively for straight male and female spouses or partners of bisexual/gay/lesbian partners who are working to strengthen their relationships. To subscribe, email SSMOR-subscribe@topica.com
SSMOR-subscribe@topica.com

Alternate Path A moderated Yahoo! Group for wives of gay or bisexual men who are seeking alternative solutions to divorce or separation. Yahoo! Group registration required.
groups.Yahoo.com/group/alternatepath

Wives of Bi/Gay Husbands A moderated Yahoo! Group exclusively for girlfriends, wives, and ex-wives of bisexual or gay men. Members network and explore the full range of emotions that are involved in the coming out process for the straight spouse. Yahoo! Group registration required.
groups.Yahoo.com/group/WivesofBiGayHusbands

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For Families

Rainbow Families of Puget Sound A website for families with gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered parents that offers supportive networking and other social activities for all family members.
www.rainbowfamiliesps.org

Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) A website for the parents and friends of lesbians and gay men that promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons, their families and friends through support, education, and advocacy to end discrimination and to secure equal civil rights.
www.pflag.org

Hope Understanding Growth Support (HUGS Couples) A moderated, Yahoo! Group exclusively for couples of mixed sexual orientation who are working to keep their relationship strong and growing. Yahoo! Group registration required.
HUGS_Couples-owner@Yahoogroups.com

Spouse Support Mailing List A moderated, confidential email list exclusively for straight male and female spouses or partners of bisexual/gay/lesbian partners who are working to strengthen their relationships. The list also includes couples where one is bisexual and the other gay or lesbian and where both are bisexual. To subscribe, email ssml-subscribe@topica.com.
ssml-subscribe@topica.com

Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work A moderated, Yahoo! Group for men and women who are in mixed orientation marriages. Yahoo! Group registration required.
groups.Yahoo.com/group/MMOMW

Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere (COLAGE) A website for the children of all ages of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender parents that provides resources, education, support, and community and advocates for equal rights for their families. Email list available for children 14 years of age.
colage.org

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Our Communities

Greater Seattle, Business Association (GSBA) A website for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and allied business and professional chamber of commerce, whose mission is to combine business development, social action and leadership to expand economic opportunities for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community and those who support equality for all.
www.thegsba.org

Soulforce A website for gay, lesbian, and bisexual Christians. “Soulforce, guided by the spirit of truth and empowered by the principles of relentless nonviolent resistance, works to end the religious and political oppression of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning people.”
www.soulforce.org/

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